SOUL TIES 1Although you don’t see the word “soul ties” in the Bible, there is plenty to be said about soul ties. The Bible talks about becoming one flesh.   Soul ties tie two souls together in the spirit realm. One type of soul ties is sexual soul ties. Soul ties are formed when a couple are married (Ephesians 5:31, “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.”). This would mean then that when two people come together who are not married, ungodly soul ties are formed.  This ungodly soul tie fragments the soul and is destructive.  This is why people (and not just teenagers) who are sexually active have such a difficult time breaking away from their boyfriend or girlfriend. They have ungodly soul ties with the other person in the spirit realm. This is why you may see one that is controlled, manipulated or abused that stays with their boyfriend or girlfriend … there is an ungodly soul tie with that person that hasn’t been broken. Any sexual relationship outside of marriage creates those ungodly soul ties and must be broken. There are also married people who need to break ungodly soul ties from past relationships. Fornication is a very common way to create a soul tie. If a person has more Soulties-608x342than one sexual partner, then they have  ungodly soul ties with multiple people.  In essence, you now have ungodly ties with those that they have ties with although you didn’t literally have relations with all those other people.   Their soul is further fragmented and divided with multiple people. This picture is a great illustration of what happens in the spirit realm.

This is not God’s design for you either physically or spiritually. These soul ties will destroy and must be broken.   If this is you, repent of your sin and run the other  way. Get rid of the gifts, etc. that remind you of that person.  Renounce any commitment you made to this person. (I’ll love you forever, etc.) Forgive them of any wrongs toward you. Then renounce and break the ungodly soul tie verbally and in Jesus name. Example, “In Jesus’ name, I now renounce any ungodly soul ties formed between myself and ______ as a result of _______________ (fornication, etc.).” Then break  the soul tie in Jesus’ name! Do this verbally using your authority in Jesus. Example, “I now break and sever any ungodly soul ties formed between myself and _________ as a result of ______________ (fornication, etc.) in Jesus’ name.”

soul-tiesThis word is not to condemn but to bring freedom to those who might find themselves in this situation. Breaking ungodly soul ties are vital to your spiritual freedom.  I know this is plain talk but its vital!

Plain talk for young people…. Purity

The enemy will strategically send those people into your life to steal your purity. Satan hates your purity and we know the thief comes to steal, kill and destroy, even your purity. He will send the “experienced” boy or girl into your life and very subtly the enemy will use them to chisel away at you little by little and to make those boundaries become a little more gray.  The enemy uses flattery and words like I love you, you are the only one for me, you know I respect you, if you really loved me…. The enemy has no new tricks and has used those lines for centuries to deceive. One may think but I am  different and I can change them but we are not the Holy Spirit.  It is God that changes. As young people, it is vital to protect our purity by seeking God about who we “spend time with”, and who our partner in life will be. A young person must be bold in their faith and in their stand on purity and not waver. Don’t put yourself in compromising situations that leaves the door open to cross God’s boundaries for you and give in to temptation. Be aware the enemy will send thieves to steal what God has reserved for marriage.